Are you exhausted from trying to earn love through endless achievement? Do you feel trapped in a cycle of proving your worth through perfect performance? You're not alone. The journey from programmed unworthiness to authentic love is one many of us walk, but there's...
How Our Past Shapes Our Understanding of Servant Love The sound of shattering glass as my father threw his plate against the wall wasn't just about dinner being late. It was about dominance, about demonstrating that love meant control and service meant submission. His...
When Others' Need for Recognition Triggers Our Programming It's a familiar dance, though the partners have changed. Someone does something "for me," and immediately my childhood programming kicks in. Their need for recognition, their subtle (or not so subtle)...